Checkout this awesome OS family tree!. I’d love to have that printed on a big poster!
You can't compare Microsoft Windows, or Android, with macOS/iOS. The first two were not specifically designed to run on—and take full advantage of—a set hardware. It is proven they all have their niche. As with everything in life, there is always something for everyone. Some people love Microsoft Windows, and Android, and that's alright. Others like Apple hardware, the software that comes with it, as is. And others, like @prologic, tweak it to their liking (I do tweak my macOS too, but use the Apple "ecosystem" way more than @prologic). It's that simple.
I think one can absolutely have a good reason to hate a company, that produces things they don't even use. The best example of this was Microsofts Internet Explorer, which for decades made lives of many web developers a living hell.
Some web developers argue site rendering on Apple products can still be somewhat lacking (even outside of missing codecs) and working in that area now, I can confirm a few sites had to be changed to show up right on Macs, though to be fair I don't know what exactly was causing it.
Also damn Apple, I really hope they learned how to finally make screens, that don't come off when cleaned.

Believing me, I've seen this on almost every other Macbook, back during my internship in Ireland. 😏
Cheap shots (and there are many more) aside, part of me would still like to give M1 Macs a fair try, so if any of you work high positions at Apple and my approval is for some (even to me unknown) reason somehow really important to you, feel free to send me one of those machines for free and I might retract some of what I said, at least when it comes to Macs. 😄